Aggression Questionnaire The Buss-Perry Aggression Questionnaire consists of twenty-nine statements designed to assess four factors: physical aggression, verbal aggression, anger, and hostility. It is a self-scoring test, and subjects are asked to evaluate themselves according to the degree to which they agree with the statements. The questionnaire uses a five point scale, with one point indicating a statement is "extremely uncharacteristic" and five points indicating "extremely characteristic." A score of three on any statement is considered neutral. Two statements are reverse scored; "5" on either or both statements indicates a lower level of aggression.

For the purpose of this study, four family members and four randomly selected individuals evaluated themselves according to the Buss-Perry Aggression Questionnaire. All the names have been changed to protect individuals' privacy.

Don, age fifty-two, is a real estate attorney who enjoys sailing in his spare time. His wife Betty, forty-nine, is a real estate agent who plays golf and tennis regularly at the local country club. They have been married for eleven years; it is the second marriage for both. Betty has two daughters, Jane and Nora, who are nineteen and twenty-one, respectively. They are away at college most of the year but live with Don and Betty during the summer and semester breaks.

Research demonstrates that women show greater inhibition than men in social contexts (Archer and Webb, 2006, p. 465). In the case of Don and Betty, the generalization does not hold true. Don's score on the aggression scale was 42. He answered "extremely uncharacteristic of me" for almost every statement...

No one would be surprised at Don's score. He is a large man, almost six feet five inches tall, and known as the "Gentle Giant." It would be difficult to find anyone who has seen Don irritable, much less angry.
By contrast, Betty scored 67 on the aggression scale; some would say that Betty underestimated her tendencies to lose her temper and be confrontational. These qualities have been an issue in her marriage to Don, and Betty has tried to be, as Don says, "more laid back." People who know the couple often cite the adage "opposites attract." Don is soft-spoken and shy, while Betty enjoys being the center of attention and is known for having strong opinions.

Competitiveness is a variable that has been linked to aggression (Archer and Webb, 2006, p. 465). This finding is consistent with the scores on the aggression scale of Betty and her daughters. Betty is extremely competitive in the work place. The real estate market is tough, and Betty believes she needs to be aggressive to be successful. Betty is known to be fiercely competitive on the tennis court and on the golf course, even though she insists she plays both games to relax and to network for business. Betty's daughters are also athletes. Jane plays tennis at her university, and Nora is a swimmer. As well, both girls are excellent students with strong academic records. They are as competitive as their mother. Their scores were higher than Betty's, by fifteen points (Jane) and twenty-two points (Nora). The girls consider their assertiveness and competitiveness to be assets in academics and sports. They consider it a compliment when…